At this age, children develop quickly, as they gain greater awareness of themselves and the world around them:
They have reached some level of self-control and are now able to use words to express what they want. Children become more independent and can follow a series of simple instructions.
Self-confidence grows and children learn to challenge authority and test the limits of their independence.
Separation anxiety has usually faded away, but it is still quite possible that they will dissolve into tears when first setting off to school.
A child’s imagination begins to develop between the ages of three and a half to four years, and they may have frightening dreams. Their biggest fear is that their parent or carer will abandon them, especially at night. Other fears can also set in, for example fear of the dark or spiders.
At this stage, children are more able to enjoy playing on their own. They also become more interested in other children and begin to interact more directly with them. They are now more likely to share toys and take turns, initiate or join in play with other children and begin dramatic play.
Between four and five years of age, children show more awareness of themselves as individuals. They have a developing awareness of their own needs, views and feelings and are sensitive to the needs, views and feelings of others.